physical participation in sessions

physical participation in sessions

Postby Usha S » Wed Sep 28, 2011 6:02 am

Hi Becky,

My son Sriram loves to be in his playroom and enjoys his sessions with all the three volunteers. He is flexible,his eye contact has increased very much. He can talk fiveto six words sentence. His main motivation is singing songs in the couch and listening them in the head phone. We sing the songs he likes and pretend like we are the head phone. He lies in the couch and participate and sometimes as per yr recommendations when he is strongly motivated we do lure him to sit like we tell that we can sing louder when he sit and participate. Oflate he does respond. My question is how to make him actively participate physically? and also sometimes he will be half staring and half looking what to do whether we have to join or initiate any game at that time? We have also stop putting song in the player When we are not playing. But sometimes in the evening he isms a lot and as we have no volunteers to work in the evening we feel like putting music for him as we wanted some rest. Is it ok to put music ?P lease help me as we will be having group meeting after a very long gap

Regards,
Usha
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Re: physical participation in sessions

Postby BeckyDamgaard » Wed Sep 28, 2011 9:58 am

Hi Usha,

I hope you are doing well! It sounds like Siram is doing great! We are so excited for you all in your Son-Rise Program journey with him. So to answer the first part of your first question, I think it needs some experimentation. If he is burying himself in the couch and asking you to sing then it seems that his eye contact would be low or non-existent at that time. I would start with requesting eye contact in a fun way (e.g. "Hey you! Look at me so I can sing for you!") also vary this by telling him "The longer you look, the longer or the louder I sing the song for you!". This will help him to connect in a deeper way with you while you sing. This is a stage one eye contact goal in our Son-Rise Program Developmental Model "Looks to start and continue the interaction".

If he is already looking, or you have done the above and he responds nicely to the request then you could find other ways for him to participate in a physical way. Instead of always asking him to sit up, experiment with having pretend buttons that he could press that make you sing each song (e.g. put some stickers on you face so he can come and press them). Or you could the write the song names on pieces of paper and stick them up around the playroom on the walls and you both run to the next song to sing for him. That will get him up and moving around and not just burying himself in the couch.

The second part to your first question will be if he doesn't respond to your requests and invitations to look or participate then I would stop singing and join by pretending to bury yourself in your own couch, maybe you could get some cushions to do this with and create your own experience. If he's not responding then he's clearly not available and is being more exclusive so it's time to join until you get a stronger green light.

Here is a link to my latest blog that talks about interactions and different things to work on in them.

http://blog.autismtreatmentcenter.org/2 ... -with.html

The other question about the headphones. We suggest you don't have him listen to music right now. Anything electronic, music, video games, TV, etc will have a hypnotic effect on him that can be over-stimulating and hard to compete with when we are helping him want to be with people more in his life.

Try setting him up with other toys or a game he could play with in the evenings that is not electronic in that way.

Enjoy!

Warm regards,

Becky
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Re: physical participation in sessions

Postby Usha S » Thu Sep 29, 2011 1:02 am

Hi Becky,

Thank you very much for yr reply. I think as you have said we have to work more on his eye contact and we will try all the tips that you have given in yr blog. The tips are really very useful for us.

Once again thank you very much. We will try all the things that you have mentioned and let you know

regards,
Usha
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Re: physical participation in sessions

Postby jaci50 » Sun Jan 27, 2013 9:43 am

I wanted to ask peoples opinions on the advantages of son-rise for non-autistic children?
I am particularly interested in the benefits for children who have suffered severe emotional distress, abuse, neglect etc... I personally feel that son-rise would help these children because most of them will have shut off from the world as a result of what they have experienced.
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